In addition, this book is written by Umm 'Abdillah Al Wadi'yya who... Read More

In addition, this book is written by Umm 'Abdillah Al Wadi'yya who has significant knowledge of several areas of religious science and follows the path of our prophet Muhammad sallallaho alyhi wa salam. An honorable woman, whose concern is to spend her time in what is useful, and who seeks to teach and advise Muslim women as well as the Muslim community. May Allah the Most High reward her with good. Moreover daughter, of the honorable scholar Sheikh Muqbil may Allah azawajel have mercy on him.

This Islamic work is advice addressed to Muslim women in general which is followed by a series of questions and answers.

Among the themes covered:

• Children's education
• Clinging to the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallaho alyhi wa salam
• The reciprocal rights of spouses
• Wear the veil (hijab) and look down
• Modesty and its merits
• Pride
• The boycott

Among the questions addressed:

• What is the reason for women to wear the veil?
• Is it allowed for women to go out without a veil?
• Is it allowed for women to listen to music?
• Is it permissible for a husband to leave his wife with his brother?

Thus Umm 'Abdillah Al Wadi'yya may Allah azawajel reward her for answering all her questions thanks to the proofs of the Quran and authentic hadiths.

Table of contents

ADVICE FOR MUSLIM WOMEN

INTRODUCTION

PREFACE WRITTEN BY MY NOBLE FATHER SHEIKH MUQBIL IBN HADI AL-WAD'I

AUTHOR’S INTRODUCTION

INCENTIVE TO SINCERITY AND TIME MANAGEMENT

PRESERVE YOURSELF FROM SINS COMMITTED BY THE TONGUE AND THE RESULTING MERITS

OVERVIEW OF THE SINS THAT THE TONGUE CAN COMMIT:

1. SPEAK WORDS OF DISBELIEF OR POLYTHEISM
2. HAVE COMMENTS RELATING TO RELIGIOUS INNOVATION
3. THE MEDANCE (AIGHIBAH)
   • How to repent of backbiting?
4. THE ANNAMMAH COPORTAGE)
5. THE LIE
6. DISCLOSE SECRETS
7. INSULTING THE MUSLIM WITHOUT HIM
8. SPEAK IN AN AFFECTED AND DURING AIR
9. ARGUMENT FOR A VANE CAUSE
10. MAUDIRESE COMPLAIN
11. THE HEARDS
12. THE YOUNG PERSON'S REWARD DECLINES DUE TO ERRORS CAUSED BY HIS LANGUAGE
13. SINGING
14. LAMENT FOR A DEAD
15. THE TONGUE CAN COMMIT FORNICATION
    • The causes of sins committed by language

CHILDREN'S EDUCATION

CHILDREN'S EDUCATION :

1. Various hadiths dealing with the merits of the Quran and those who read it regularly
2. No mercy towards those who are not merciful
3. One of the manifestations of clemency towards children is to teach them good
4. One of the manifestations of clemency towards the child is to kiss him
5. One of the manifestations of clemency towards the child is to take him in prayer
6. One of the manifestations of clemency towards the child is to tease him
7. One of the manifestations of clemency towards the child is to carry him on his knees.
8. Tenderness towards the child

THERE IS NO WRONG FOR THE WOMAN TO LEAVE THE HOUSE IF NEEDED

WEAR THE VEIL AND LOWER YOUR GAZE

THE PRINCIPLES THAT WOMEN MUST RESPECT WHEN SHE LEAVES HOME

WOMEN CAN PARTICIPATE IN BATTLES AND DEFEND HERSELF IF NECESSARY

PROTECT YOURSELF FROM WOMEN

WOMEN ARE DEFICIENT IN TERMS OF REASON AND RELIGION

THE RULES OF WOMEN.

THE MAJORITY OF THE INHABITANTS OF HELL ARE WOMEN

THE RECIPROCAL RIGHTS OF SPOUSES

• OVERVIEW OF THE DUTIES OF THE WIFE TOWARDS HER HUSBAND
  1. She must obey him when he invites her to share his bed
  2. The wife must not perform a supererogatory act without her husband's consent.
  3. The wife must not allow anyone to enter her husband's home without his permission.
  4. The wife must not leave her husband's house without his permission.
  5. The wife must not spend her husband's property without his permission.
  6. The wife must make herself beautiful to please her husband within the limits of the legislation
  7. She has to take care of her mori
  8. The wife does not have the right to file for divorce without a valid reason
  9. If the husband dies, the wife must mourn for four months and ten days
  10. The wife must not divulge her husband's secrets and vice versa

• OVERVIEW OF THE DUTIES OF THE HUSBAND TOWARDS HIS WIFE
  1. The husband must provide for the needs of his wife
  2. If the husband corrects his wife, he does not have the right to harm the face
  3. 3. If he corrects his wife, he has no right to insult her
  4. If he corrects his wife, he does not have the right to turn away from her outside the home
  5. If the husband returns from a trip, he must not return home without warning his wife of suspicion.
  6. The husband must instruct his wife
  7. The husband must maintain good relations with his wife
  8. The husband must look handsome for his wife
  9. The husband should not forbid his wife from going to the mosque

THE JEALOUSY OF WOMEN

A WIFE DOES NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO ASK HER HUSBAND TO DIVORCE FROM HIS CO-WIFE

WOMEN DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO PRETEND TO HAVE WHAT SHE DOES NOT

THE WIFE DOES NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO MAKE THE PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION OF ANOTHER WOMAN TO HER HUSBAND

THE PROHIBITION OF MODIFYING THE CREATION OF ALLAH

EXTENDING YOUR HAIR IS ONE OF THE GREAT SINS

THE PROHIBITION FOR MEN TO LOOK LIKE WOMEN, VICE VERSA

APPLAUSE IS A WOMEN'S CHARACTERISTIC

WOMEN DO NOT HAVE TO COMPLETE JIHAD

MODESTY AND ITS MERITS:

1. Modesty is of two types
2. Definition of modesty

OVERVIEW OF SOME BAD ATTITUDES:

1. THE BOYCOTT (A HAR)
2. NOT DESIRING THE GOOD FOR YOUR MUSLIM BROTHERS (JEALOUSNESS)
3. THE DIFFERENT DEGREES OF JEALOUSY
4. ANGER
5. PRIDE
6. HARDNESS

HONORING THE KINSHIP LINKS OF A LOVED ONE

SPREAD GREETINGS

IT IS NOT ALLOWED TO GREET SOME MUSLIMS AND IGNORE OTHERS WHO SHOULD GREET THE OTHER FIRST?

GREETING EACH OTHER WHEN LEAVING EACH OTHER

WE SHOULD NOT GREET JEWS AND CHRISTIANS FIRST

GREETING THE CHILDREN

CAN WOMEN GREET MEN?

THE MEANING OF THE PHRASE AS SALAM'O ALAYKUM

SOME VARIATIONS OF THE GREETING FORMULA

THE LARGE NUMBER OF WOMEN AT THE END OF TIME

THE MERITS OF KHADIJAH BINT KHUWALID

A MAN SHOULD SEEK TO MARRY A VIRTUOUS WOMAN AND VICE VERSA

TWO OTHER HADITHS ENCOURAGING TO MARRY A VIRTUOUS WOMAN

ACQUIRE BENEFICIAL SCIENCE

Clinging to the QURAN AND THE QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

Question 1: Is it allowed for a woman to go out unveiled?

Question 2: Is it permissible to swear by respecting the deposit (Al Amanah)

Question 3: Is it permissible for a woman to implore help from a jiinn named Umm Sibian, or to implore help from devils and demons?

Question 4: Is it permissible for women to listen to music?

Question 5: Is it allowed for women to hang charms and protective amulets?

Question 6: Is it permissible for a woman to look at men from behind her veil?

Question 7: Is it permissible for a woman to force her husband to sacrifice an animal for other than Allah?

Question 8: Is it permissible to mourn for the dead?

Question 9: Is it permissible for women to wear perfume when going to the mosque?

Question 10: If a woman visits another woman who has a television in her home, is she allowed to watch?

Question 11: A woman goes with her husband to his brother's house. When they both arrive at their destination the woman says to her husband leave me with your brother, and go wherever you want?

Question 12: Is it permissible for a husband to leave his wife with his brother?

Question 12: If the woman's guardian proves recalcitrant, and refuses to marry a pious man whom she wishes to marry, is it permissible for the woman to come to an agreement with this man and say to him "I give to you as a wife."

Question 13: If a girl's father, brother or guardian asks her to marry a man who neglects prayer or consumes alcohol, should she agree?

Question 14: Where is Allah? Some say He is in heaven, others say He is everywhere. Which of these two statements is correct?

Question 15: Scholars have differed regarding women's jewelry. Some claim that Zakat concerning them must be paid. Others say it shouldn't be. We would like you to mention the most correct opinion to argue with evidence, as well as the opinion of scholars.

Question 16: Some people perform two units of prayer which they dedicate to a dead person. Others recite the Fatihah which they dedicate to a deceased person. What are the acts which, if they are dedicated to a deceased person, reach the latter and are counted in his good works?

Question 17: Can we say that Allah has eyes?

Question 18: Can we say that Allah has a self (nafs)?

Question 19: Can Allah be said to be one thing?

Question 20: Can Allah be said to be Elder (Qadim) Eternal (Da'im), as well as Siltir, Satir and Sotar?

Question 21: When did Shiism enter Yemen? And what does the word chisme mean? And who is the author of the famous phrase: "If the Shiites were birds, they would be vultures. And if they were quadrupeds, they would be donkeys". ?

Question 22: People differ regarding the question of the vision of Allah. Some claim that it is possible to see Allah in this world. Others say it is only possible to see it in the afterlife. Finally, some deny the two previous opinions. So what is the most correct opinion?

Question 23: Did the Prophet sallallaho alyhi wa salam see his Lord on the night of the nocturnal and the ascension?

Question 24: Can we say that Allah has one face, two hands and one side?

Question 25: Can you tell us about destiny?

Question 26: If we say that sins are the result of Allah's destiny, can we blame the sinner?

Question 27: Can you mention some of the merits of the companions? And what is the status of the one who insults the companions?

Question 28: Can you mention some of the merits of the Prophet's family members? And who are those who diverged from the path of the Prophet's family: "are they the Shiites or the Sunnis?"

Question 29: What is the status of someone who claims that Wahhabism is more dangerous for Islam than communism? And can you mention some of the differences between Shiites and Sunnis?

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